the bottom line
if you aren't sure you want to commit to a party, say no. don't be flighty.
if you aren't sure you want to commit to a party, say no. don't be flighty.
in detail
if you aren't sure if you are ready to commit to a party, a date, a new job, or anything else that will take a chunk of your time, then don't say that you will commit just because you are afraid to hurt someone's feelings. the worst thing you can do is make a promise that you can't deliver on. it could brand you as an unreliable person, which you most definitely are not. so try not to be flighty -- be honest. in the end, people will appreciate honesty more than half-baked involvement.
if you aren't sure if you are ready to commit to a party, a date, a new job, or anything else that will take a chunk of your time, then don't say that you will commit just because you are afraid to hurt someone's feelings. the worst thing you can do is make a promise that you can't deliver on. it could brand you as an unreliable person, which you most definitely are not. so try not to be flighty -- be honest. in the end, people will appreciate honesty more than half-baked involvement.
yipee! i like.
in fact, yesterday, he told me he missed me so much that he felt like hugging me when we met the other day. i was lost for words. i told him, i unable to reciprocate his feelings. i'm unable to tell him that 'i miss you too". those words should not be said too easily. sorry. maybe i'm still not ready to commit to relationships yet. i'm not prepared to get hurt again.
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